March 28, 2007


  • Okay, so I got Bored! (With the same music for so long) I’m upgrading my musicplayer,
    now that I’ve got my own computer back. The Irish music is in there, but there are more songs mixed in.
    I’m using a code from before “the crash”, so bear with me..the Christmas music isn’t all out yet.


    for those who hadn’t read the previous post, I’ve just tagged this on,
    since this doesn’t seem worthy of an individual entry.


    blessings…Jim

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    Well, she’s done it again! ( taught the “old man”) I am back from the Gulf now, and was
    musing about what clever Irish anecdotes and sayings might be
    worth putting up. I drifted over to Noelle’s site 
    and found something I think is far more worth saying.
    Without further ado…


    I wish that the Christian body could be more open about flaws and mistakes. I think that’s something that is ruining the church these days. Everyone has to come to church looking a certain way. The pastor is forced to make it look like everything in his life is going according to God’s will. No one feels that they are able to be honest about things that have gone wrong in their lives and places where they’ve strayed from God. It’s not that its not allowed. It’s just that no one wants to believe its a problem. Sure, we see it in our own lives. We know that there’s a bunch of places we’ve screwed up. But we don’t want to hear it from anyone else and no one else wants to hear it from us. At least, that’s the impression we’re giving off. But why?

    I think that the church is afraid of having weaknesses in its body. We’ve forgotten that the grace of Christ is supposed to be sufficient to wrap around all those bumps and cracks to make us a united body. I think that people have forgotten that church isn’t where you go to pretend to be what you want. It’s where you go to be what you are so that you can praise God as truthfully and wholly as possible.

    I don’t think that you can let Christ take full control if you can’t humble yourself and admit that you aren’t perfect. Sometimes I feel this imperfection should be stressed above the ways we’re growing and succeeding in our Christian walk. Not to the point where it drags us down, but the point to where others are aware of our struggles and can lend a hand in our journey to change and renewal. I don’t understand how growth can be accomplished without fixing your weaknesses. And this can’t be done outside the Christian body. I’ve noticed, also, that all too often Christians…myself definitely included…will take mental notes in church or when talking to Christians friends about things that will help to fix a certain problem, but the actual struggling and attempting to do so is done outside this context.


    Perhaps I’m just blabbering. But I think it would do everyone…and here again I’m definitely talking about myself too…a lot of good if we could just be open about our trials. I’m sick of welcoming praise but being slow…and feeling like its only acceptable to be slow…to share my faults and my mistakes and be humbled and challenged. I really think that would do the body of believers a lot of good.”


    Through youthful eyes the world is seen
    in ways we’ve long forgot;
    And through those eyes our faded dreams
    are kindled, bright and hot.

    Lord, let us not forget the flames
    You lit in just-born days;
    Oh Let Your Spirit Light in us
    the vision of Your ways!


                                                       © copyright 3/21/2007 james a. smallish


    from 1 Timothy 4:11…Do not let anyone look down on you because you are young,
    but be an example for the believers in your speech, your conduct, your love, faith, and purity.



     

Comments (20)

  • AMEN dear brother! It’s another “out of the mouths of babes”… praise God, for this is an example of what, hopefully, is the future of the Body of Christ, that she is one of those to whom we can with confidence pass on the baton and know that the Lord can indeed work with His people in the Body until such time as He returns. Love to all, Gerrie

  • I only skimmed this post but from what I saw, it’s totally up my alley! Christians these days seem to avoid weakness, vulnerability, and perceived failure like the plague. As Brennan Manning would say, they never recognize their own poverty of spirit before God, so they never find their true selves. They can’t see the light in darkness, the beauty in ugliness. The strength in weakness, the power in vulnerability …

    But I digress

    RYCs:

    Thanks for the info!! I appreciate it. Both about the nursing and the Lost Tomb of Jesus. Whether it’s a hoax or not, I think Christians also tend to have a knee-jerk reaction too many times when stuff like this comes up. Like some have said, “This could destroy Christianity!” Why? Our faith has to be rooted deeper than that.

    Much food for thought.

    Many blessings your way, Jim!

  • Yup, and yup!

  • Your daughter is wise beyond her years and as I can see…has an awesome heart! There are so many great thoughts here, “I think that people have forgotten that church isn’t where you go to pretend to be what you want. It’s where you go to be what you are so that you can praise God as truthfully and wholly as possible. ” Amen! God bless! Thanks for visiting LaleoCafe You always bring a smile to my face!

  • A very thoughtful post. I have to agree that many churches do suffer from just this type of apathy…and it is apathy to want to believe that everything and everyone is all warm and fuzzy. I’m not sure that a lot of churches…or perhaps it would be better to say a lot of church congregation members ever think what being the “body of Christ” actually means…It’s become for many just another empty catch phrase, when what it should do is stir our hearts to examine in what ways we live out being part of His body. I’m so thankful that I belong to a church where honesty, support and encouragement to be who you are, and to share your struggles with others is espoused and lived. I think church should be a place where you worship together with others and where you can cry out and expect to be heard and loved and encouraged. There is so much growth that can come to so many when people aren’t afraid to show how they stumble and struggle and overcome the trials placed before them. There’s great strength and integrity in openess and honesty.

  • Thought you might enjoy checking out Cygnus33′s blog. Another young woman pondering along a similar line to your daughter’s thoughts. http://www.xanga.com/Cygnus33/578035376/the-testimonies-we-ought-to-be-hearing.html

  • RTC: Thank you for posting, and I’m happy that what God is teaching me is helping others.  Anything I write is from what he is showing me and dealing with me in.

    Glad you posted this other’s blog.  I sadly agree with what she says.  I feel as though in the church, we’re taught that our imperfections make us imperfect…but the flesh’s imperfections stand apart from the perfect heart Jesus placed in us after our personal salvation.  So, we’re told we’re imperfect becauses of our sins, therefore we assume that all the other sinners are imperfect and want nothing to do with them.  Thus, we all hide are imperfections from eachother.

    Counterintuitive.

  • I enjoyed this post.  Thanks.

  • Hi! Gerrie pointed me to here and I’m glad I came! This is such a good post. I wish the whole church could read it! Thanks for saying what needs to be said. I’m tired of the facade within the church. It’s time we be real with each other. Only then can we be free.

    Blessings to you!

    Chris

  •  Very very true. Wonderful post!! Peace!

  • Hi Jim,

    Your post expresses some of my same thoughts.  Thanks for posting them.  I saw your picture on Ray’s site and also noticed that you have a Shout.Life.com site.  I do as well.  I tried to connect to you on ShoutLife, but I couldn’t find the correct button to click.  I felt stupid.  LOL  I’ll try again soon.  Good to talk with you again.  Be blessed and have a good day.

    God bless,

    Joe :  )

  • …..WE ACTUALLY WENT TO A CHURCH WHERE THE PREACHER SAID IF YOU TESTIFY ABOUT THE THINGS THAT ARE GOING WRONG IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU ARE GIVING THE DEVIL CREDIT….????……..WE ARE SUPOSE TO CONFESS OUR FAULTS TO ONE ANOTHER!!…..     ;P   OH WELL……

    THANX FOR STOPPIN BY & *RYC….I ACTUALLY AM RELATED TO THAT DASHING YOUNG MAN WITH THE BEARD IN THE CBU JERSEY….LOL!!!….WHEN I SAW MY SKINNY BUTT SON & HIS GIRLFRIEND IN THEM SHIRTS, I COULDN’T BELIEVE THAT I USED TO BE ABLE TO WHERE THEM MYSELF….      ;D

    HAVA BLESSED DAY IN THE LORD JIM…..                            greg  <><     =]

  • ryc: What can I say? It was too good to pass up. Beauty like that is meant to be shared. :)

  • Glad it encouraged so, good sir. And man, your background is actually quite similar to one of the views we had down there, makes me miss it even more so.

    And heck yes to the point about our being open. Were the church to be so, we might solve everything from self-esteem issues to judgementalism. But if only, eh? : )

  • I thin that tis post is absolutely right.  I feel very blessed to be in a Church where this openness is encouraged, and therefore growth is happening.  I also really like your poem here, Jim!

    Cowboy

  • Good thoughts, now for us to put them into action by God’s grace

  • You have got to be boasting in the Lord our God right now with a beautiful child so knowledged in the spirit…..High five to Noelle!

    Deanna

  • This is such a blessing & so true! I sent myself a copy of this entry so that I might reread it and meditate upon it again. Thank you for sharing it with us. I also appreciated the poem that you wrote. Thanks, Jim. 

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