November 23, 2006
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In mulling over today’s “thankful” holiday theme, I came across this
piece by Brother David Steindl-Rast;
a monastic and companion of Thomas Merton ,
on the Gratefulness.org web page.
It seems especially apropos in a world where, though we celebrate “Thanksgiving”,
many seem not grateful, thankful or giving.
“… there is good news: Yes, it is indeed possible to teach and learn gratefulness. A good starting point is surprise.
We can cultivate surprise at waking up to another day, surprise at whatever the weather happens to be that day,
surprise that there is anything rather than nothing! How come?
And how come we don’t think to ask “how come” more often?
Children have a natural ability to marvel. They are little philosophers in this respect, for, as Plato said,
all philosophizing starts with wonderment. It is easy to encourage children to look at the world with amazed eyes.
For teaching and learning gratefulness, a magnifying glass can be an invaluable tool.
Another teaching aide is a simple soap bubble blower, which contains several thousand incentives for wonderment.
Of course, in order to be taught, it is necessary to want to learn. But who would not want to learn, once they see
that the smallest act of gratefulness triggers immediate feedback.
Gratefulness unlocks joy.
Nothing that we take for granted gives us joy.
Yet the smallest surprise, received gratefully, yields a harvest of delight. As a teacher, you can look for moments of wonder,
multiply moments of wonder, to share with your students — children or adults — so that even the crustiest and most
hardened among them suddenly catches on to the fact that whatever there is, is pure gift.
In Daniel 12:3, we read, “Those who show many the way to life will shine forever like the stars in the firmament.”
What better way to a fuller life than teaching gratitude? I can just see the eyes of children light up like stars as gratitude
takes hold of their hearts. And to think that this multitude of stars will sparkle forever!”
May each of you be blessed with surprise, wonder , appreciation of God’s gifts; great and small,
and filled with thankfulness and gratefulness;
not only today, but every day.
Blessings…Jim
Comments (14)
And may God bless you and yours this day of Thanks. in Him, Gerrie
Very appropriate piece for Thanksgiving!
Hope you had an enjoyable day of celebration.
Mike
Have a nice day!
A great piece to meditate on.
Hope you had a great Thanksgiving!
“Gratefulness unlocks joy”…something I’m still learning…
I hope you and your loved ones had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Stay safe and have a wonderful weekend. May God continue to bless you through this holiday season.
Wow, thanks for sharing this! I am blessed and grateful.
Heather
RYC: Wow, that’s some serious holiday pay! And I’m with you on the connection thing. I don’t even like to call it prayer. That sounds like a duty. Connection is a pleasure when it’s with your Beloved.
HI…I WUZ REFERED HERE BY MOMMYFISH…SHE SAID I WOULD LIKE IT…SHE WUZ RITE….
GOD BLESS YA…..greg <><
I am trying to teach my kids “an attitude of gratitude.” I really think that is the basis for a lot of the troubles we have in our society today, a lack of gratitude, and a sense of entitlement. Thank you for sharing this piece with us, and I hope you had a truly blessed thanksgiving.
Have a great new week!
Kenneth
may we all learn to have a grateful heart
JIMBO!!!!!
I appreciate all of GODS gifts…Everyday I thank HIM for everything….Just knowing that HE goes thru everything with us makes me feel a little better…
I hope you had a wonderful HOLIDAY…I did with my mommy
Michael
I like that Mexico moments video!
Thanks for your always-welcome comment:)
Have a blessed day.